THE MAN SHOULD BE PAID HIGHER THAN WOMEN

In a family, for example a husband and wife as the same working as a teacher. Although his wife also work, but still a husband give his pay for his wife. Because that is responsibility of man to fill necessary his wife and children. So, the man should be paid higher than woman.

Actually, i disagree if from side position and same job, but apparently the salary different. In fact, the support of it is the experience, effort, and hard work to build and advance the company. And from this we can appraise and opine which ones deserve to get more salary.

The higher her/his graduates she/he had an important role to the position she/he wants in a company. But, all of that also depending on experience and skills that is owned. And depending a company and level experience also his/her ability. Not all salary of man higher than women.

If salary of man and woman are same or even higher woman than man. The man will feel  inferior if approach the woman which get higher salary than his self. Because the man think that he who should be sufficient his wife. And afraid have been put low by woman. As well as woman, she will be afraid if she get higher salary because the man not audacious to approaching him.

So we know that of all those we can conclude that the support of get the higher salary is from experience, effort, and hard work to build and advance the company. So not all salary of man be higher than woman, although they have the same position.

In a family, for example a husband and wife as the same working as a teacher. Although his wife also work, but still a husband give his pay for his wife. Because that is responsibility of man to fill necessary his wife and children. So, the man should be paid higher than woman.

Actually, i disagree if from side position and same job, but apparently the salary different. In fact, the support of it is the experience, effort, and hard work to build and advance the company. And from this we can appraise and opine which ones deserve to get more salary.

The higher her/his graduates she/he had an important role to the position she/he wants in a company. But, all of that also depending on experience and skills that is owned. And depending a company and level experience also his/her ability. Not all salary of man higher than women.

If salary of man and woman are same or even higher woman than man. The man will feel inferior if approach the woman which get higher salary than his self. Because the man think that he who should be sufficient his wife. And afraid have been put low by woman. As well as woman, she will be afraid if she get higher salary because the man not audacious to approaching him.

So we know that of all those we can conclude that the support of get the higher salary is from experience, effort, and hard work to build and advance the company. So not all salary of man be higher than woman, although they have the same position.

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My beloved cat

I have a special pet, she was very cute cat her is Derry. Derry was very smart. She is beautiful and funny. I would take her everywhere I went. I love Derry because she is my beloved cat.

My friend gave it to me in my birthday, I gave named her Derry because she was as cute as the bear and also like me hehehe 😀 …Derry was so beautiful,naughty cat and bit aggressive too. She had white fur and brown eyes. She had black spot on her head and her tail. She also had small legs and very cute paws.

Derry was very smart cat. Why I said like that? This is because she used to known my timing for every single day. She would wake me up in the morning.She even knew what time I came home. I noticed this when I used to hear clawing at the door of my house. Then when I open the door, she would jump on me want me hug her as if she was trying to tell me that she missed me so much.

I would take her everywhere I went. Sometimes, she hid under the chair and once the door opened. She really like running in the house and she always follow me when I leave a room and I feel it is better than doing the evil things. She always ask me played with her and I feel so happy when I played with her.

Till this day, Derry and I would always have great times together. Then after she got tired, she would just run to me, sit on my lap and begin biting my hands as if she wanted me to love her. So, she can go to sleep. Anyway, I was a lucky person who have a very cute cat and always with me, and also make me happy and smile every day. I really love Derry and she is my beloved cat.

What are the effect of eating instant noodle?

Do you like instant noodle? Yes, of course almost every body eating instant noodle every day. Do you know what the effect of eating instant noodle? Every body who consume this product certainly already know the effect. But they still to consuming it. Because it is a simple, economical and easy to buy. Most of the consumption of noodles is a student. I have asked to several student. What are the effect of eating instant noodle?

They answer that instant noodle to disturb our digestive system and intestines, if consuming more than once every day. Actually we consuming instant noodle maximum twice in a week.

May lead to obesity because contain much of fat so not reserve in body. Unsurprised if we consuming too over eating instant noodle cause weight gain or even trigger to cancer. Contents of flavor contains MSG (mono sodium glutamate). So, if we cooking a noodle cannot mixed with the flavor when noodle a cooked, because content of MSG become high and it is make a cancer. And if consuming instant noodle we recommend that you the water when you boil noodle must loosing up and change with the new water.

Consuming instant noodle cannot with rice because rice has been a staple food and noodle has been a favorite food. Both of them have high calorie, so if too often consuming noodle with rice it’s not good for your health. Instant noodle including a junk food and contains high carbohydrate without mineral and vitamin. So give a bad influence to our health.

We recommend that you to subtract consuming instant noodle. Be better if replace with food nutritious, such as vegetables and fruits. Because we know that instant noodle is not good to our health.

COMPARE AND CONTRAST ABOUT MARRIAGES FROM RUSSIA AND INDONESIA

Contrast :
– In the Russian, Russian women look for foreign husband with ads in newspaper or others. But in Indonesia, the man seeking woman. Usually they are looking for a woman that is one area with them. And they are in relationship in advance.
– In the Russian many woman are not shy about going to dating agencies. But in Indonesia majority woman of Indonesian feel ashamed to ask in advance, because usage woman of Indonesia like that, woman of Indonesia have high prestige.
– In Russia each day about 10 woman go to the agency, but only two to three of them are put in the files because they are have criteria for selection. But in Indonesia not like that, many of man busy looking for woman with their preferred criteria.
Compare
– Both of them bridge always get prized from bridegroom.
– Both of them, they fiance in advance for waiting to marriage.
– Both of them, the bridegroom visit to bridge places.
Essay
In the world, there have many variety about marriages. Such us, in Australia, America, Asia, Europe etc. There are have some of differences way. But i only will few explain about marriages in Russia and Indonesia. In there have similarities and differences to marriage. Do you know what is it?
OK. The first, i will explain about the differences. In the Russian, Russian women look for foreign husband with different way. They ads her self in newspaper or register in agencies. Many woman are not shy about going to dating agencies or alliance. There, each day about ten woman go to the agency, but only two to three of them are put in their the files. Because they are have criteria for selection.
But in Indonesia there not same like with Russia. In Indonesia the man seeking woman. Usually they are looking for a woman that is one area with them. It means not foreign citizens. And Indonesia majority woman feel ashamed to ask in advance to dating because woman of Indonesia have high prestige. And many of man busy looking for woman with their preferred criteria become to his wife.
Then, there not only have many differences, but also there have many similarities, such as, both of them if they married the bridges have always been prized from bridegroom. Before they married they fiance in advance for waiting the marriage. And also both of them the bridegroom visit to the bridge place when they married.
Wow it is amazing. It is only little part of this world. There still many variety about marriage. Maybe, i had enough, only this what can i explain to you. I hope this is useful to you all. Thank you very much.

 

Diversity is the Icon of Unity

Diversity is something that shows us to everything not same. It could see in our place, Indonesia. Indonesia has plenty of lands, we could see all of that in the map of Indonesia. There are from Sabang to Marauke.
Every land has different culture, language, habit and etc. Each language has unique sound, in bahasa it is usually called “medok”. When i meet the person who come from the city expect Java, and i speak in java devinitaly she/he do not understand what i said. Even though some words are same but see, that is lots of variations language in Indonesian. For example “ngeleh” means “hungry” in Central of Java but means “move something” in East of Java. It just Java,and what about all of 34 provincies in Indonesia? You could imagine it, right! It shows us that Indonesia in a amazing country.
Not only about its language, but also about its dance and songs. Both song and dance are complete each other, such as Jathilan, Lingsir Wengi, which it is Central of Java’s. I am so proud to be Indonesian. We have everything which other country has not yet. We should make our unity and go forward to make better for Indonesia.
In tourism, we can promote our culture, our beauties. And alhamdulillah Miss World was be conducted in Bali. It seemed a bit freak and had controversial issue. Yet, i think it made Indonesia more well-known than before. And if you watched that program, you would know that it would be worth. Due the fact that every Miss World wore traditional clothing from 34 provincies that we had. Eventhough it had controversial but we should integrated each other. We must thankfull for Allah who gives us beautifull country. Since we had. Different thought we have to understood. Unity is going to make us to be the country which has powerful, unique and beautiful. images

Speech

Good morning ladies and gentleman.
Imagine this. You have a child who should be going to school. She wants to go to school and wants to learn. But, your family is poor. You cannot afford to pay the school fees. Therefore, she has to stay at home. This is a reality for many families in Indonesia. It is a fact that for some children education is a luxury their families cannot afford.
What is the solution to this problem? I believe that education should be free. Children’s leraning should not be based on the wealth of their families. I wish to discuss why free education is important and show some of the benefits that free education would bring to Indonesia.
To begin with, a just society treats all its members fairly and equally. This should include aqual access to education. If we have a system where people must pay to go to school, it means that the wealthy, the rich, will receive a better education whilst the poor receive a poor education or do not receive an education. This is unacceptable for a society that wants equally. It is essential that good education be available to all.
Secondly, let us consider an example of an intellegent child whose family is too poor to send him to school. This child could be genius but due to poverty and school fee, he is not able to learn. How many children from poor families are in this situation? New internationalist magazine reported in June 2003 that following the economic crisis in Indonesia milions were forced into proverty, affecting the number of children able to attend school. Free education would ensure that all children, rich or poor, and regardless of intellegence, have an opportunityto learn.
Finally education in Indonesia is compulsory. If the government makes something compulsory, they must be prepared to fund it properly, it comes down to priorities. We rugularly see rich leaders and politicians living in mansions and driving BMWs whilst classes do not have enough books and poor students are forced to drop out. This is an unacceptable situation. Instead of mansions and luxury cars, the government should be funding a free education system that allows ail children to go to a good school.
In conclusion, let me reiterate that the current system in which poor families cannot send children to schoolis unacceptable. It must change. To ensure equality and justice schools should be adequantely funded so that all students have the opportunity to attend. It is only when we have a fair and just education system that we can claim to be fair and just nation,
Thank you.

Berbakti Kepada Orang Tua

 

 

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Kasih ibu sepanjang jalan, kasih anak sepanjang galah. Begitu bunyi ungkapan yang menggambarkan betapa besar kasih sayang orang tua kepada anak-anaknya. Demikianlah realitanya. Betapapun besarnya balas budi seorang anak, ia tidak akan mampu menyamai apa yang telah diberikan orang tua kepadanya. Sudah sepantasnya seorang anak berbuat baik dan menaati perintah orang tua, selama mereka tidak memerintahkan kepada kemaksiatan.
Dalam permasalahan ketaatan kepada orang tua, manusia terbagi menjadi tiga kelompok:
Pertama, menaati segala perintah kedua orang tua tanpa melihat perintah tersebut sesuai dengan syariat atau tidak. Hal ini termasuk ifrath (melampaui batas).
Kedua, tidak mau menaati perintah kedua orang tua walaupun perintah tersebut tidak dalam bermaksiat kepada Allah dan Rasul-Nya. Sikap ini adalah tafrith (meremehkan).
Ketiga, menaati perintah keduanya selama perintah tersebut tidak bertentangan dengan syariat dan menolak perintah itu bila menyelisihi syariat.
Semuanya ini dapat kita lihat dalam kehidupan kaum muslimin sehari-hari. Lalu manakah sikap yang benar dalam menaati perintah kedua orang tua?
Adapun kelompok pertama yang menaati semua perintah orang tua baik perintah tersebut bermaksiat atau tidak, sangat bertentangan dengan apa yang disabdakan oleh Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam:
“Tidak ada ketaatan kepada seorang pun di dalam bermaksiat kepada Allah. Sesungguhnya ketaatan itu di dalam kebajikan.” (HR. Al-Bukhari no. 40 dan Muslim no. 39 dari shahabat Ali bin Abi Thalib)
Abu ‘Amr Ad-Dani ‘Utsman bin Sa’id Al-Qurthubi berkata: “Tidak ada ketaatan kepada seorang makhluk pun di dalam bermaksiat kepada Al-Khaliq. Tidak pula bernadzar dalam bermaksiat dan mensyaratkan dengan syarat yang mengandung maksiat. Ketaatan itu pada perkara yang baik.” (lihat Ar-Risalah Al-Wafiyah hal. 114)
Kelompok kedua yaitu yang tidak mau taat pada apa yang diperintahkan kedua orang tua baik dalam perkara yang diridhai oleh Allah ataupun tidak. Ini bertentangan dengan firman-Nya:
“Sungguh Rabbmu telah memerintahkan agar kalian tidak menyembah selain kepadanya dan berbuat baiklah kepada kedua orang tua.” (Al-Isra: 23)
“Katakan: Marilah kubacakan apa yang telah diharamkan kepada kalian oleh Rabb kalian yaitu janganlah kalian mempersekutukan sesuatu dengan Dia, berbuat baiklah kepada kedua orang tua.” (Al-An’am: 151)
Juga sangat bertentangan dengan hadits-hadits Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam, di antaranya:
Dari Abu Abdirrahman bin Mas’ud radhiyallahu ‘anhu, ia berkata: “Aku bertanya kepada Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam: ‘Amalan apa yang paling dicintai oleh Allah?’ Beliau berkata: ‘Shalat pada waktunya.’ Aku berkata: ‘Kemudian apa?’ Beliau berkata: ‘Berbuat baik kepada kedua orang tua.’ Aku berkata: ‘Kemudian apa?’ Beliau berkata: ‘Jihad di jalan Allah’.” (HR. Al-Bukhari, 10/336 dan Muslim no. 85)
Kelompok ketiga menaati perintah kedua orang tua selama tidak bertentangan dengan syariat Allah dalam arti tidak dalam rangka bermaksiat. Inilah sikap yang benar sesuai dengan ayat-ayat dan hadits-hadits di atas. Tidak ifrath dan tidak pula tafrith.
Sehingga jika ada pertanyaan, bagaimana hukum menaati kedua orang tua? Maka jawabnya tidak spontan wajib. Namum membutuhkan rincian. Jika perintah tersebut tidak bertentangan dengan perintah Allah, maka wajib untuk menaatinya. Dan apabila perintah tersebut bertentangan dengannya, maka wajib untuk tidak taat kepada perintah keduanya. Dalilnya sebagaimana di atas.
Bagaimana bila orang tua melarang untuk menuntut ilmu agama? Menuntut ilmu agama adalah wajib atas setiap orang. Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam bersabda:
“Menuntut ilmu adalah wajib atas setiap muslim.” (Shahih, HR. Al-Baihaqi dan lainnya dari Anas dan lainnya. Dishahihkan oleh Al-Albani, lihat Shahihul Jami’ no. 3913)
Allah berfirman:
“Berilmulah kamu tentang Laa Ilaha illallah.”
Kita tidak boleh menaati perintah orang tua apabila mereka memerintahkan untuk tidak menuntut ilmu karena termasuk bermaksiat kepada Allah. Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam bersabda:
“Tidak ada ketaatan kepada makhluk dalam bermaksiat kepada Allah akan tetapi ketaatan itu dalam kebajikan.” (HR. Al-Bukhari dan Muslim)
Wallahu a’lam.
[Diambil dari artikel “Cinta yang Tak Mungkin Terbalas” oleh Al-Ustadz Abu Usamah bin Rawiyah An-Nawawi dari Majalah Asy Syariah no. 08/I/1425 H/2004, hal. 53-54]

 

puisi cinta

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Inginku Milikku Dirimu
Terlalu lama ku pendam
Semua rasa ini padamu
Kini ku sudah tak tahan
Ku ingin kau tau semua..
Aku lebih dulu mencintaimu
Aku lebih dulu mengenalmu
Bukannya dia..
Cinta itu harus diungkapkan
Cinta itu harus memiliki
Tak kan kulepaskan dirimu
Memang tinggi egoku
Namun.. ingin ku miliki dirimu..
Demi cinta yang t`lah lama ku pendam
Demi mengganti semua pengorbanan
Yang t’lah ku lakukan untukmu
Kau harus jadi milikku..
Cinta yang Tak Pasti
mungkin aku terlalu bodoh untuk mengerti
mungkin aku tak sengaja jg menyakiti
andai aku tau isi hatimu
andai kesempatan itu datang lagi padaku

sekarang mustahil bagiku
bahkan menyentuh bayangmu, aku tak mampu
sekarang aku terpuruk dalam jurang sesalku
dan cinta ni jadi sesak dalam dadaku
aku tau cinta ini sudah tak laku

tapi biarkan cinta ini aku miliki
biarkan cinta ni menjadi bebanku
aku tak peduli
meski menghambat jalanku
aku tau mencintaimu adalah tak pasti

Aku Menginginkanmu
semoga perih ini akan terobati
semoga galau ini cepat usai
karena kau sakiti aku
karena kau lupakan aku

andai saja masih denganku
dan..
andai saja dulu kau jujur
aku akan mengerti semua itu
tapi, apalah daya..
kini sudah terlanjur

sapa ku takkan terucap
rasa ku takkan terungkap
dan tanyaku takkan terjawab

masihkah ada bayangmu
masihkah ada kenanganmu
andai saja waktu berputar kembali
kan ku ucap..
aku masih menginginkanmu
dan kiriman kedua dari saudari Aisatun Amanah

Pilihan
ku coba tuk lupakan
dan ku coba tuk membenci
tapi dirimu selalu ada
difikiranku yang tak menentu

mengapa kau ada
membayangiku
bimbang
perasaan tak menentu

sebuah pilihan
harus aku tentukan
apakah aku harus melupakanmu?
atau.
tetap mengenangmu
walau kau sudah melupakanku

BIDADARI TANPA SAYAP
Kelembutan hatinya membuatku terpana. . .
Melihat kehindahan Rembulan,
Sama seperti melihat keindahan wajahnya.

Sungguh kuat dia menghadapi ini semua. . .
Menghadapi keaadaannya yg begitu nyata.
Merasakan penderitaannya sendirian.
Dan mengukur penderitaan diatas mimpi . . .

Walau dia hanya Bidadari tanpa sayap,
Tapi kelembutan hatinyalah yang membuatku merasa seperti…..
Berada di atas awan.
Sekian dulu puisi cinta kali ini, semoga bermanfaat untuk para pembaca sekalian.